But tbh, this is a daft question. It's like saying you can't have a policy position on gun control unless someone has shot at you.
Did you deserve the woman only award? Would you assume that identity to get that award? Are you saying that people dishonestly assume trans identities because its an easy way to assume power in our society? Are you a serious person?
Does a woman in a t-shirt and jeans also cause you great emotional distress? Does it become more if she wore a dress the day before?
I'm going to agree with the other person who replied. You're not a serious person.
When there's an impact that individual bad actors have, that's why we have individual punishments - we don't punish all men or all women for one bad actor, its nonsensical to treat trans folks as some homogeneous group when they literally embody the opposite :]