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Bye, Mom

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149 points reducesuffering | 1 comments | 14 Dec 25 08:21 UTC | HN request time: 0.33s | source
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decimalenough ◴[14 Dec 25 09:58 UTC] No.46261986[source]▶
It's difficult for me to reconcile her grief at the loss of her mother with the horrific abuse her parents inflicted on her. (Mostly her father, to be fair, but with the full knowledge and consent of her mother.)

https://aella.substack.com/p/the-joy-is-not-optional

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1. rutierut ◴[14 Dec 25 10:12 UTC] No.46262049[source]▶
I think it’s very typical of post-rat and thus Aella that these things can exist at the same time and don’t invalidate or negate each other.