The two situations have absolutely nothing in common.
Edit: can the non-Hamas surrender and avoid getting killed? They can't and the situations on the ground aren't that different. A Warzaw and Gazan survivor would have a lot in common.
Edit: I found your answer to that question:
https://news.ycombinator.com/reply?id=45268680&goto=threads%...
Paraphrased, the children are part of the culture and may die. There are no civilians.
> what should a non-Hamas member in Gaza do right now to avoid getting bombed
Evacuate when told to by the IDF. It's terrible, but it's better than being bombed.But you are correct - the responsibility to end the war and prevent further civilian casualties lies squarely with Hamas. Pressure them to return the hostages, don't pressure Israel to capitulate to terrorists.
But it seems you are getting your way, we will find out exactly how many dead are acceptable to mr Bibi.