I just use Hacker News, unironically
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I feel like the experiment of moderation decisions via mob rule is largely a failure, and I much prefer the style of old webforums where moderation was left only to the people who ran the site/server and the people hand-picked by them. Tildes does this, as does Discord.
Personally, my news diet is Kagi with a well-curated blocklist and Tildes with a few targeted topic tag filters.