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BiteCode_dev ◴[] No.45067060[source]
> they also got me reported to HR by the manager of the XROS effort for supposedly making his team members feel bad

This is madness. The safe space culture has really gone too far.

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Inityx ◴[] No.45067225[source]
I'll offer a different interpretation:

If a professional can't give critical feedback in a professional setting without being rude or belittling others, then they need to improve their communication skills.

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amarant ◴[] No.45067991[source]
This is not that though. This is just developers being unable to handle constructive criticism, and when they can't win the argument on merits, went for the HR option. It happens.

I've had it happen to me too, but my response was to resign on the spot (I was already not satisfied with the company).

The "toxic behaviour" I had done? I reverted a commit on the master branch that didn't compile, and sent a slack to the Dev who had committed it saying "hi! There appears to have been a mistake in your latest commit, could you please check it out and fix it? I've reverted it in the meantime since I need to deploy this other feature"

The dev responded by force pushing the code that did not compile to master and contacted HR.

I decided there was greener grass on other pastures. I was right.

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tom_ ◴[] No.45070653[source]
Carmack says he can't post the actual discussion, but clearly you have access to it - can you post it?
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simoncion ◴[] No.45071398[source]
Even if that didn't violate NDAs & etc, that would be super rude. You realize that, right?
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theshackleford ◴[] No.45071559[source]
It’s also super rude to make claims as to what occurred and why in any situation you yourself were not privy to or involved in but I don’t see you rushing in with the same vigour to point that out.
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1. simoncion ◴[] No.45071597[source]
> It’s also super rude to make claims as to what occurred and why in any situation you yourself were not privy to or involved in...

Do you know that that's what's going on here?

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2. theshackleford ◴[] No.45071927[source]
Yes. Seems pretty clear from the post to me that they are making assumptions based on a similar event in their past, not that they were involved first hand in this event.
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3. simoncion ◴[] No.45073475[source]
>> Do you know that that's what's going on here?

> Yes. Seems pretty clear from the post to me that they are making assumptions...

So you don't know what's going on; you're assuming. Cool.

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4. theshackleford ◴[] No.45079204{3}[source]
> So you don't know what's going on; you're assuming. Cool.

Incorrect. Their post makes it clear they were not involved in their own words. It's called reading comprehension.

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5. simoncion ◴[] No.45080407{4}[source]
> It's called reading comprehension.

Right back at you.

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6. theshackleford ◴[] No.45087508{5}[source]
Yes, except I’ve already displayed I’m capable of it whilst you have displayed only the opposite.