If you want know what calculus-y words mean, you're going to need to learn calculus. People use calculus-y words to quickly convey things professionally. That's why it's a "topic" for you to learn. The thing under discussion is a limit.
The practical question is whether you think it's ok to continue propagating a rather crude and misunderstanding-prone idea about Big O. My stance is that we shouldn't: engineers are not business people or clients, they should understand what's happening not rely on misleading cartoon pictures of what's happening. I do not think you need a full-year collegiate course in calculus to get this understanding, but certainly you cannot get it if you fully obscure the calculus behind the idea (like this and uncountable numbers of blogpost explainers do).