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picardo ◴[] No.44377037[source]
I'd be interested to see an update to this study in the coming years. Starbucks has been pivoting towards take out and mobile orders and removing tables and chairs entirely from some of its stores lately.
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ghaff ◴[] No.44377402[source]
I don't dispute that there may be a trend but a lot of Starbucks have long had pretty scanty seating--and certainly tables where you can reasonably meet and talk. And it can be fairly difficult to find a table at more traditional cafes/coffeeshops. So there's reasonable debate over whether a lot of coffeeshops are really third places.
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walterbell ◴[] No.44378177[source]
> debate over whether a lot of coffeeshops are really third places

What are some examples of real third places in major US cities?

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sneak ◴[] No.44378445[source]
The third places in the United States are almost exclusively churches and bars. It’s sort of gross.

As a teetotaling atheist, I moved to Berlin for the universities and night clubs, as there are tons of social events associated with both.

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picardo ◴[] No.44378582[source]
Agreed on both points. In my middle age, I've even considered starting drinking again so that I may have a reason to go to the only place where people hang out in my neighborhood, which is obviously a bar.

The one and only social activity that has saved me from this road so far has been a few meetup groups that I frequent.

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sneak ◴[] No.44379556[source]
You can hang out in a bar and not drink alcohol. Tell them to put your ginger ale in a rocks glass.

As we get older it’s more important than ever to avoid alcohol. We don’t have the organ margin we used to. All that bullshit about “a glass of wine a day is good for you” was fake.

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picardo ◴[] No.44379889[source]
I do that sometimes, but I get peer pressured into drinking alcohol if I socialize. You can't win.

Agree with you about the benefits of avoiding alcohol.

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1. strken ◴[] No.44383196[source]
Tell a long, rambling, and slightly depressing story about your friend Bec who had half her liver removed at age 17 every time someone tries to pressure you into drinking. Works okay for me.