Edgy! No one has ever considered the mortality of their children ever, or contemplated the difference between death before and after the realization of potential. Wow!
Having a child predecease you is one of the worst things that can happen to a person in general. This is a common sentiment in humans. The strange thing is that you mentioned you're trying to follow "logic." This is not logic. These are emotions.
I understand this. My question arose from the fact that it seems like he only cares about the child dying before him, not the child's death overall. It was
> the idea of being told my 1 week old baby is going to die