Is there any online resource or somewhere I can see this in practice? Or any newsletter, youtube channel that discusses this in detail?
My go to sources are open source repositories where I try to understand the code bases and some PRs. But I feel overwhelmed with the resources.
Your focus should also shift a little bit more towards helping others, thinking about where the whole team is going, etc.
But give it time. As long as you keep learning, you will get there. :)
Another book recommendation is Head First Design Patterns - the one I read used Java in the examples but I learned better with the style of that book than a textbook style. There are probably a lot of design patterns books out there including the original by the "Gang of Four".
The most important thing after reading about these patterns is learning when to use one and to do that you just need to go use them. Some caution though, I found myself putting patterns into use more frequently than was probably necessary simply because it was a new thing.