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compounding_it ◴[] No.46241382[source]
>The world is a much kinder, nicer place than it often seems.

I realize that a lot these days. People are not inherently so bad but greed is a nasty drug that has the potential to ruin the best.

When you have nothing to offer but kindness and compassion, it is very simple to see the humanity side of things in this world and it can feel really amazing.

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Panzer04 ◴[] No.46241637[source]
Idk, people are usually nice in my experience. News, forum opinions and youtube videos are not remotely representative of how things work in real life.
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keepamovin ◴[] No.46241835[source]
Why do you think that is? The reality distortion field of the internet I mean
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anomaly_ ◴[] No.46242200[source]
The internet is basically full of maladjusted people with sad lives. Strong chance that the post you read on HN, Reddit, X, etc is written by someone profoundly unhappy with their lot in life.
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wongarsu ◴[] No.46242336[source]
And it's not just that those people are more online, they also post a lot more, and don't stop a conversation when they should.

For many years the prevailing notion was that anonymity turns people into dickheads. But they did studies on this, and it turns out it's just that the real-life dickheads just dominate the discussion and the reasonable people post way less

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keepamovin ◴[] No.46242604[source]
Is that true? Can you post some studies you saw? That's fascinating if true. "The dickheads" post more - because they find an environment to take out their evil desires where they believe there are "no consequences", sounds like it makes sense. But I'd like to see the evidence.
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1. wongarsu ◴[] No.46242749{3}[source]
It might have been "The Distorting Prism of Social Media: How Self-Selection and Exposure to Incivility Fuel Online Comment Toxicity" by Jin Woo Kim et al. [1][2]

1: https://academic.oup.com/joc/article-abstract/71/6/922/63636...

2: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1rJ20sca3fg6epXwVbGj7HdNfCH4...