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pedalpete ◴[] No.46009875[source]
My first reaction was to refute this, but I think I've convinced myself this may be correct, assuming attachment styles are the right frame.

I've been painted with the Avoidant brush, and logically it makes sense, broken home, removed from mother, moved regularly changing schools once a year for 5 years.

However, my siblings are the opposite. We come from the same house, they didn't change schools as often as I did, which made me wonder how we could be so different.

But when looked through the lens of friendships forming the attachment style, it makes more sense. I changed schools more often than my siblings, and therefore had more friendship changes, and less ability for attachment.

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jcims ◴[] No.46010423[source]
Similar story here. Six schools by seventh grade. I think it does mess with you a bit.
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1. faidit ◴[] No.46011234[source]
Same. The only friends that stuck around were people from the internet.