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donatj ◴[] No.45957949[source]
> The other day, someone told me, “I can’t imagine you ever being awkward with people.”

I was telling my therapist of several years recently about being uncomfortable with the number of new people I've had to meet recently.

He seemed surprised that I wasn't excited by it all and said something along the lines of "You seem like a very social person, that seems out of character." It struck me… am I really that good at masking that my therapist didn't realize I am absolutely terrified in near all social situations? I have zero idea how to make small talk with people I haven't known for years.

Working from home since COVID has made my social skills so much worse because I don't get the practice.

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replwoacause ◴[] No.45962082[source]
Exact same problem I have with being fully remote. It’s turned into near total isolation from everyone except immediate family.
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1. HPsquared ◴[] No.45963293[source]
I found there's a transition period where you eventually learn how to reach out via the internet to your remote peers and have good conversations.