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Where do the children play?

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retube ◴[] No.45951914[source]
As a parent, I relate to all this. Great piece.

When the kids were babies we had the standard debate of move to the countryside for fresh air and gambolling in the fields etc. But so glad we stayed in London, the kids have so much freedom with public transport they can organise their own meet ups and activities and go running around all over town without any parental assistance or intervention at all. Whereas elsewhere we'd need to drive them everywhere, they'd be stuck at home way more, they'd have no real agency in their lives - I grew up like that and hated it.

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gyomu ◴[] No.45952370[source]
Wait, how old are your kids, that they gallivant around London on their own? Are we talking about teenagers?

Because yeah, I agree with you that in that sense cities are better than the often car-centric countryside for teenagers; but for young kids (elementary school and below, which is what the article covers) it's a very different equation.

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jddj ◴[] No.45952526[source]
Why? Plenty of elementary aged kids use the tube
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djtango ◴[] No.45952551[source]
Do they? I don't think I've seen anyone younger than 12 unattended on the tube
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jddj ◴[] No.45952556{3}[source]
The DLR at some hours between some stops is practically a school bus.

I guess it's possible they're small but not <12yo

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1. prmoustache ◴[] No.45959921{4}[source]
Are you calling 12y olds small? That is an age many female already have their periods. My youngest daughter is 12y old and almost 1m70 (5'7").

In some countries and even US states this is already an age you can marry.

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2. AnnikaL ◴[] No.45961068[source]
Without court approval, no one under 16 can get married in any US state.