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Where do the children play?

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409 points casca | 5 comments | 16 Nov 25 13:45 UTC | HN request time: 0.644s | source
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retube ◴[17 Nov 25 08:49 UTC] No.45951914[source]▶
As a parent, I relate to all this. Great piece.

When the kids were babies we had the standard debate of move to the countryside for fresh air and gambolling in the fields etc. But so glad we stayed in London, the kids have so much freedom with public transport they can organise their own meet ups and activities and go running around all over town without any parental assistance or intervention at all. Whereas elsewhere we'd need to drive them everywhere, they'd be stuck at home way more, they'd have no real agency in their lives - I grew up like that and hated it.

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1. dukeyukey ◴[17 Nov 25 10:20 UTC] No.45952337[source]▶
You're more thinking suburban, or super rural. I grew up in a rural Welsh town (~3000 people), and was is walking distance of basically everyone we knew. I walked to school, to the pool, to the shops, my friends, everything.
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2. Cthulhu_ ◴[17 Nov 25 11:17 UTC] No.45952629[source]▶
Same, somewhat bigger town but it had everything within walking or cycling distance, it was only when I was 17 or so that I had to cycle to the next town over for school. But small towns are emptying out too, a lot of aging, elementary schools are merging and closing, local shops and amenities are closing down. The town used to have a bank, post office and police station, but banking and mailing changed to the point where it was no longer viable to have those services in town.
3. startupsfail ◴[17 Nov 25 19:30 UTC] No.45957221[source]▶
When I was growing up 90-ies, a mix of using public metro and buses to roam the city (since I was in second grade, when I was allowed to take metro to do afterschool karate) and spending summers in various countryside locations where my grandparents resided was a good mix.

I disagree that the kids need or want to roam without grownups all the time. Grownups are not the problem. Kids are fun for the parents, the company of parents and their peers is kinda amazing.

Systems and institutions are the problem. When kids are stuck in the daycare or school, in a very limited space, grownups are stuck at the office and grandparents are in a different state for tax purposes - that is the problem.

I don't know if this is true, but Patagonia claimed at some point that they used to maintain daycares and allow kids to roam the campus...

4. lanfeust6 ◴[17 Nov 25 22:27 UTC] No.45959116[source]▶
Rural in Wales is not like rural in most of North America.
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5. dukeyukey ◴[17 Nov 25 23:01 UTC] No.45959432[source]▶
The post I responded to mentioned this:

> But so glad we stayed in London

So I figure they are UK based and not in North America.