I have a similar use case in the app I'm working on. Initially I went with JSONata, which worked, but resulted in queries that indeed felt more like incantations and were difficult even for me to understand (let alone my users).
I then switched to JavaScript / TypeScript, which I found much better overall: it's understandable to basically every developer, and LLMs are very good at it. So now in my app I have a button wherever a TypeScript snippet is required that asks the LLM for its implementation, and even "weak" models one-shot it correctly 99% of the times.
It's definitely more difficult to set up, though, as it requires a sandbox where you can run the code without fears. In my app I use QuickJS, which works very well for my use case, but might not be performant enough in other contexts.