>is both annoying and self-defeating
No brother. You are the one being annoyed by it, because you are the one doing nothing about it.
>What would you like me to do about that? Is me refusing to use the tools going to change that possibility?
What I know I refused 'em out of principle, turns out I'm doing fine. I also know for certain that had I not refused them, I would not be doing fine.
>to hang onto a good life as long as I can have it.
Trick question: do you think you deserve a good life?
What if there isn't enough good life for everyone, do you deserve it more than others?
Than which ones then?
>collective whinging
And this is why I think you don't.
The moment you began to perceive mass dissent as "collective whinging" was the moment the totalitarian singularity won you over.
And then it's an entirely different conversation, conducted by entirely different means of expression.