I think at least half of all interviews are a popularity contest, and the other half are your qualifications.
I think at least half of all interviews are a popularity contest, and the other half are your qualifications.
The key is to make them stop the process, not you; so you won't have to deal with HR or management telling you that they are brilliant and you should not reject them just because "you" don't like their behavior.
Scaring jerks out is quite easy: just be excessively nice during the interview. Tell them how much time and energy everybody take caring for each other's well-being and feelings. Tell them that in the team you have lunch together every single day. And you do stuff together after works. And during the weekends.
They'll just run.
Sure, you're lying because you're working in a regular team where people are simply respectful professionnals, but they don't need to know that. You'll do everybody's a favour. The jerk included.