Actions speak louder.
It's not starving, not having healthcare etc that makes you sad so much I think as thinking others are getting it while you are not, or believing that someone is pulling something over you rather than the situation being in your hands. If you think you're doing the best you can and your own success or failure is up to you, it's hard to be particularly sad about the situation compared to someone in another position.
> It's not starving, not having healthcare etc that makes you sad so much I think as thinking others are getting it while you are not…
While social comparison is proven to be part of happiness, the science is quite strong that starving or being sick makes someone unhappy.
Point being, some people like to whine even when they know damn well 99% of the world would happily trade places with them, and for very good reasons.
There are many barriers which can be almost impossible to surmount: learning a new language, leaving your friends behind, having to finding a job (what if you don't speak the language), having to sell you house and car, etc.
> Point being, some people like to whine even when they know damn well 99% of the world would happily trade places with them, and for very good reasons.
Well yeah, but this is an broad survey, not people whining.
When I say our for-profit healthcare system is cruel, expensive and ineffective overall, am I whining?
When I say it sucks that we spend $1T on "defense" while raising taxes on working class people, is that whining?
When I say our for-profit healthcare system is cruel, expensive and ineffective overall, am I whining?
When I say it sucks that we spend $1T on "defense" while raising taxes on working class people, is that whining?
Those things make people less happy.
Is your diagnosis the people are whining and that's why the US isn't at the top of the rankings like Denmark is? Do Danes just whine less?
I want to share one of my favorite quotes which is apt:
“I love America more than any other country in the world and, exactly for this reason, I insist on the right to criticize her perpetually.” -- James Baldwin
Americans are so drunk on the liberalism kool-aid that they think they can just relocate and instantly be accepted into new communities.
This doesn't work, and when it is observed empirically by our subject, he complains about "racism" etc. - except ofc. white-knighting and doubling down on this against non-"expat" black/brown "subhumans".
Japan is filled with such "last-Samurai" larpers.
Nothing I've used in that relative comparison breaks the science you quote. And I do not need a citation to think something rather than to state it is fact. It would be odd indeed to require a citation to think of something.