> If the subject matter isn’t something the kid has a natural aptitude or interest in, and it’s not practical, and it’s not being taught in an unusually captivating way, why wouldn’t kids push back?
Agreed.
> I think adults should be able to justify why we’re using what boils down to the threat of force (if we’re honest) to make them sit in classrooms and listen to us.
Disagree. The justification for why they should learn $FOO may never be understood by a mind that we are teaching $FOO to.
There's good justification for learning to read, but not one that would be understood by a 6 year old.
There's similarly good justification for teaching Maths, but you'd be hard pressed to convince a 16 year old of the value in practicing abstract reasoning, using Maths as the vehicle.
Sometimes, the only good answer to give a kid is "you'll see the value when you're older".