Hmmmm
But you can tell who’s anti-Semitic by they way are attracted like moths to a light bulb to any story that has some connection (regardless of how distant that connection is) to Jews or Israel to get on a soapbox about how bad Israel is. And when confronted with accusations of their anti-Semitism, they rarely deny it. Instead, like you, they try to turn it around on the accuser.
It’s similar to the way you can tell who’s simply angry at his wife over a recent spat, and who’s a misogynist.
And you're name-calling because you're trying to normalize the existence of an occupation force in foreign lands.
Not everyone agrees that Israel has a right to exist. If you believe European Jews have a right to kill Palestinian children to steal their land to establish their mediterranean resort home they call Israel, then you need to explain that, instead of just name-calling.
Tell us WHY you believe European Jews have a right to kill Palestinian children to steal their land in order to establish the state of Israel.
At this point you might as well assume everyone is antisemitic, but its still your job to get them on your side.