Most off-the-shelf devices have too slow of CPU for a low latency/buffer router. The Raspberry Pi 4 is easily fast enough but needs to use USB3 network adapters which require packages not in the default rpi4 OpenWRT image. Not insurmountable, but a consistent pain every upgrade.
Now I run OpenWRT on one of those x86 mini PC boxes with 4x 2.5GBe Intel NICs because my wirespeed is 2 Gbps symmetric, so I needed just a bit more oomph than the Pi could provide. The hardware is somehow even _less_ reliable than a Pi 4 - I'm already on my third machine in 3 years. I would love to find something more reliable.
Network enthusiasts are likely to already have separate switches and WiFi points. Let the router just route.
I'm curious what your experience would be like with a Pi5/CM5 solution using PCIe for your ethernet. It is pretty easy to have spare boards and SD cards around for Pi setups. I've had good reliability with Pi setups using good passive cooling (no fan to die).