The problem I run into here is - how do you create good error messages when you do this? If the user has passed you input with multiple problems, how do you build a list of everything that's wrong with it if the parser crashes out halfway through?
He even gives the example of zod, which is a validation library he defines to be a parser.
What he wants to say : "I don't want to write my own validation in a CLI, give me a good API already that first validates and then converts the inputs into my declared schema"
But that _is_ parsing, at least in the sense of "parse, don't validate". It's about turning inputs into real objects representing the domain code that you're about to be working with. The result is still going to be a DTO of some description, but it will be a DTO with guaranteed invariants that are useful to you. For example, a post request shouldn't be parsed into a user object just because it shares a lot of fields in common with a user. Instead it should become a DTO with the invariants fulfilled that makes sense for a DTO. Some of those invariants are simple (like "dates should be valid" -> the DTO contains Date objects not strings), and some will be more complex like the "if the server is active, then the port also needs to be provided" restriction from the article.
This is one of the key ideas behind Zod - it isn't just trying to validate whether an object matches a certain schema, but it converts the result into a type that accurately expresses the invariants that must be in place if the object is valid.
zod also allows invalid state as input, then attempts to shoehorn them into the desired schema, which still runs these validations the author was complaining about - just not in the code he wrote.