I certainly like demon-less architecture; much simpler and there are less potential security issues and no single point of failure.
The one thing I don't necessarily agree:
"Privileged ports in rootless mode not working? Good! That's security working as intended. A reverse proxy setup is a better architecture anyway."
I usually use Ngix as a reverse proxy - why not have it set up in the exact same way as the rest of your apps? That's a simplicity advantage. So with Podman, I would just run this one exact container in root mode - that's still better than all of them, but quite.
I am not a fan of docker-compose - a classic example of a tool trying to do too much for me, so the lack of something similar in Podman is not a drawback for me :)
Not sure about tooling around logs and monitoring though - there is plenty for Docker.
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