Please don't post flamebait on HN. This is clearly against the guidelines. While I understand it is a reflection of your own experience, it's caused one of the worst flamewars I've seen on HN in quite some time, and we all have to take some responsibility for how others will respond to the words we use.
If you wouldn't mind reviewing https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and taking the intended spirit of the site more to heart, we'd be grateful.
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