Next.js is infuriating

Maybe this is a good place to ask... but I was actually considering Next.js as a replacement for Gatsby.js project that is a few years old, but is growing at a steady pace. Given all the negative sentiments, what are better alternatives? I don't even use any SSR, or GraphQL capabilities. The main thing I liked about gatsby vs previous "bring your oown library(router)" are: very little configuring, nice dev server, easy to use plugins. It just solved many of the boilerplate tasks for me, and let me get on with react.js components, hooks, etc. I use Django backend for API, and static hosting for the frontend.

Potential alternatives I've found:

  * astro
  * remix
  * back to react-router... and there were multiple back when I used it! :(

Update: after some research, I really Tanstack router approach: https://tanstack.com/start/latest

I've rebuilt multiple gatsby projects in NextJS recently, and mostly it's actually been pretty nice. However, the crazy high level of abstraction and black-boxing does mean occasionally we run into bugs caused by undocumented behavior and have no idea what is the right way to handle them.