I'm having a hard time understanding your question. are you asking how people who are unfamiliar with git and jj should mentally model a stack of PRs? and that this is a problem because it's intimidating for them when an expert (in git? in the codebase?) is reviewing their code?
if yes:
while jj does make stacked PRs quite easy, I think this tutorial is mostly aimed at people who are still getting their feet wet and not making stacks of PRs. and if the expert is intimidating, tell them to be helpful or fuck off
if no:
well I don't understand your question, but probably don't `jj edit` the commit at the bottom of a stack; `jj new` and, when you're ready, either `jj squash` it down or `jj rebase -s @ -A @-` your change into the stack instead