The patch that kicked off the current conflict was the 'journal_rewind' patch; we recently (6.15) had the worst bug in the entire history upstream - it was taking out entire subvolumes.
The third report got me a metadata dump with everything I needed to debug the issue, thank god, and now we have a great deal of hardening to ensure a bug like this can never happen again. Subsequently, I wrote new repair code, which fully restored the filesystem of the 3rd user hit by the bug (first two had backups).
Linus then flipped out because it was listed as a 'feature' in the pull request; it was only listed that way to make sure that users would know about it if they were affected by the original bug and needed it. Failure to maintain your data is always a bug for a filesystem, and repair code is a bugfix.
In the private maintainer thread, and even in public, things went completely off the rails, with Linus and Ted basically asserting that they knew better than I do which bcachefs patches are regression risks (seriously), and a page and a half rant from Linus on how he doesn't trust my judgement, and a whole lot more.
There have been many repeated arguments like this over bugfixes.
The thing is, since then I started perusing pull requests from other subsystems, and it looks like I've actually been more conservative with what I consider a critical bugfix (and send outside the merge window) than other subsystems. The _only_ thing that's been out of the ordinary with bcachefs has been the volume of bugfixes - but that's exactly what you'd expect to see from a new filesystem that's stabilizing rapidly and closing out user bug reports - high volume of pure bugfixing is exactly what you want to see.
So given that, I don't think having a go-between would solve anything.
You don't have to agree with all other maintainers on everything, but if you're working on Linux (or any other major project that's owned, run and developed by other people), you need to have the people skills to at a minimum avoid pissing everyone else off. Or you need to delegate the communication work to someone with those skills. It's a shame you don't.
Pointing the finger at the skills I lack and my inability, while ignoring the wider picture, of the kernel burning out maintainers and not doing well on filesystems.
It's wearying.
If this was a month or two ago, I would've written something vaguely optimistic here about how you could still turn this around somehow, about what lessons you could learn and move forward with. But that ship has sailed. Your project is no longer the promising next generation filesystem which could replace ext4 as the default choice. Your role is now that of the developer of some small out-of-tree filesystem for a small group of especially interested users. Nobody wanted this for you, including myself. But you have refused to listen to anyone's advice, so now you're here.
I can't be bowing to the demands of any one person; I have to balance the wants and needs of everyone and prioritize shipping something that works above all else.
Repeatedly we've seen that those priorities are not shared, unfortunately.
Arguments are just as heated as they ever were, but now instead of arguing over the actual issues - does this work, are we doing this right - people jump to arguing over language and conduct and demanding apologies or calling for people to be expelled.
But my core mission is just shipping a reliable trustworthy filesystem, and that's what I'm going to stick to.
You’re very successful at building the file system, but your attempt at shipping it appears to have largely failed. This is a tragic bummer.
Even if working with Linus is hard (and even if he is behaving irrationally), it’s what would’ve allowed you to get bcachefs in hundreds of millions of users’ hands. This seems worthy of a compromise considering all of the work that went into building it. Now almost nobody will be able to use it.