This article covers a lot of the points: https://www.gojiberries.io/building-together-separately-chal...
"A single page on Doordash can make upward of 1000 gRPC calls (see the interview). For many engineers, upward of a thousand network calls nicely illustrate the chaos and inefficiency unleashed by microservices. Engineers implicitly diff 1000+ gRPC calls with the orders of magnitude fewer calls made by a system designed by an architect looking at the problem afresh today. A 1000+ gRPC calls also seem like a perfect recipe for blowing up latency. There are more items in the debit column. Microservices can also increase the costs of monitoring, debugging, and deployment (and hence cause greater downtime and worse performance)."