Go is still not good

I personally don't like Go, and it has many shortcomings, but there is a reason it is popular regardless:

Go is a reasonably performant language that makes it pretty straightforward to write reliable, highly concurrent services that don't rely on heavy multithreading - all thanks to the goroutine model.

There really was no other reasonably popular, static, compiled language around when Google came out.

And there still barely is - the only real competitor that sits in a similar space is Java with the new virtual threads.

Languages with async/await promise something similar, but in practice are burdened with a lot of complexity (avoiding blocking in async tasks, function colouring, ...)

I'm not counting Erlang here, because it is a very different type of language...

So I'd say Go is popular despite the myriad of shortcomings, thanks to goroutines and the Google project street cred.

What modern language is a better fit for new projects in your opinion?

Maybe weirdly I’d put swift in there.

Swift is my hope for the next big server language. Great type system, great error handling.

I haven't followed swift too closely, but ref counting is not a good fit for typical server applications. Sure, value types and such take off a lot of load from the GC (yes, ref counting is a GC), but still, tracing GCs have much better performance on server workloads. (Reference counting when an object is shared between multiple cores require atomic increments/decrements and that is very expensive).

Tracing GC and their pauses on server workload is another tradeoff. They all have a tradeoff. You make a fair point.