If Hawking radiation turns out to be non existent, yes.
Also, we don't know if it's possible to 'crack' open a black hole. If anything, another black hole might be the perfect instrument for doing this.
So, using those relativistic definitions for energy and momentum, I think you're exactly right, at least up to the part about "since the final object is at rest". However:
- As I understand it, invariant mass, aka "rest mass" (which is equivalent to "rest energy", aka "rest mass energy"), is invariant, and it's the same before and after the collision, so the kinetic energy doesn't get "converted into rest mass energy". Rather, if the final object is at rest, then all of its kinetic energy has been radiated away; kinetic energy (E_K) is is total energy (E) minus rest energy (E_0 = mc^2, where m is invariant mass)
- I have no idea whether gravitational waves are the only way for the kinetic energy to be radiated away. I imagine other forms of energy could also be emitted.
- In order to know that the final object is at rest/has no kinetic energy (in an inertial frame), I worry that we might need to have specified more in the original question. In particular, I don't know how to handle spin. (I know that black holes have some concept of "spin", but I don't know if this is like rotational spin, or more like quantum mechanical spin, or something else, and I don't know how it figures into the black holes' total energy.) If we change the original question to say that the black holes are not spinning, then I think we can ignore this (since the collision is head-on).
[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mass_in_special_relativity#Rel...
To reiterate, I'm not a physicist. I may be off base here, but that's my understanding.
Veritasium recently claimed otherwise https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcjdwSY2AzM
Would they still fully merge, or might you get a mass exchange between them? Or even a smaller black hole spun off?
But this is because of a distinction between the Apparent Horizon [1] (which is coordinate-dependent) and the true global event horizon. So they appear to briefly merge but no true global event horizon forms to encompass both. I think!
[1] https://physics.stackexchange.com/questions/38721/what-is-th...
No, outgoing gravitational waves could carry out energy and momentum. This is not a closed system. Nobel prize 1993