> Having a lead position in development I would kick Kent of the team.
I've seen this sentiment a lot lately. That disagreeable top performers have to be disposed of because they are "toxic" or "problematic".
You aren't doing your job as a leader if this is your attitude to good engineers. Engineering is a field where a small amount of the people create a large amount of the value. You can either understand that, and take it upon yourself to integrate disagreeable yet high performing people into the team, paving over the rough patches yourself. Or you can oust them, and quite literally take a >50% productivity hit on your team.
A disagreeable person will take up more of your time as a manager, but a high performer is worth significantly more of your time. When these traits co-occur in the same person, the cost-benefit is complicated. The reason we talk about this problem a lot in tech is because it is legitimately a tough call, with errors in both directions. Wishing that the right move was always as simple as kicking someone off the team doesn't make it true, although it may relieve you from having to contend with the decision.