When I was first learning Haskell a million years ago, I was completely confused by the concept of a monad; I could, after enough fighting with the compiler, usually get something working, but it was a stochastic guess-and-check process trying to figure out what `IO` actually means. Even the `Maybe` was confusing to me, because I couldn't really figure out how the hell you relate something like "checking for null" with "writing to the disk".
I can't remember where I saw it, probably on the Haskell wiki somewhere, but when they pointed out the List is a monad, and after seeing an example of how it worked, I suddenly got it: in a hand-wavey way, a monad is basically just a value with a wrapper context [1], and from a practical perspective that's all it is. In the case of a List its wrapper context is that there might be 0 or many of those things in there, in the case of a Maybe its wrapper context is that it might exist or it might not, in the case of IO its wrapper context is that it's interfacing with the outside world, and once you abstract away the entire idea of context, you can suddenly open up an entire world of reusability.
This is a good tutorial, I will probably be linking it to people if they ever make the mistake of asking about monads.
[1] I don't need a lecture on the minutia of this, I know that there's a lot more to it in the theory world, I went to graduate school specifically to study functional language verification. I'm keeping it simple.