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How to leave the house

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ajkjk ◴[] No.44413205[source]
I hate that I live in a world where people get a dog because socialization is so broken and a nameless interaction at a park is among the barrel-scraping interactions people are doing to cope with it. Like if it's gotten that bad we should be having a revolution, not getting dogs.
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bluGill ◴[] No.44413241[source]
People have always been shy and unsure about meeting others. It is expressed different in different societies but the issue is there.
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rightbyte ◴[] No.44413475[source]
There used to be this plethora of study groups, non-profit associations doing whatever, book circles etc to meet people in a somewhat formalised manner that wasn't a date.

Big tech has displaced those and replaced them with nothing.

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paulryanrogers ◴[] No.44414266[source]
Book clubs are alive and well, my SO is part of two right now. I'm reading a book with coworkers and we'll be discussing in a few weeks.

Some old traditions are now competing with a larger variety of physical and virtual activities. IMO you could blame the car as much as the smart phone.

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1. queenkjuul ◴[] No.44415385[source]
I blame the car more personally. My parents lived very isolated lives in the suburbs long before they got phones.