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anovikov ◴[] No.44376551[source]
I really can't imagine how it could probably ever work. So one goes into Starbucks and start bugging other random people sitting there (with whatever topic, not just pushing their "elevator pitch" onto them)? If that happened people will start avoiding them just like they avoid places frequented by bums or beggars. No one wants that. People won't go where it is possible.
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hiAndrewQuinn ◴[] No.44376625[source]
Typical mind fallacy. When I go visit places like this I do so with the explicit intention of meeting other people, otherwise I'd just stay at home.

Plus, isn't the claim literally that there is correlational evidence here? That lightly suggests your model of how the world works in this area is off.

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TimorousBestie ◴[] No.44376764[source]
Cultural observations are not instances of typical mind fallacy, you’re reading OP too literally.
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1. anovikov ◴[] No.44385652[source]
Perhaps it was indeed my personal thing. Maybe it's just that i'm introverted? But i'd hate to be bugged when in a cafe and if it ever happened (it never did), i'd probably stop visiting that particular place seeing it as a magnet for obnoxious types.

And yes, i don't do any networking at all, literally never met any person i did business with, in 25 years of career.

Or maybe, that is my European perspective? Because i probably never seen people doing that. There is an old observation that "networking" is American only cultural phenomenon and it doesn't exist in Europe - maybe it's one of the ways it manifests itself?