My household uses Newpipe we don't pay for shit.
I'm doing my best to move my viewing off of YouTube, and move the money off of YouTube, in hopes that it eases the creators moving off of YouTube.
But the only reason so many creators are exclusively on youtube is the fact that anyone can watch there. Google tolerates my ad blocker to some degree (unlike other sites) because the alternative is losing market share and they know it.
If creators feel cheated, they can ask youtube to stop serving their videos for free for its own interests. I'd like to see the status quo change actually.
Anyone is free to do something in private and ticket people for it. I'm doing a concert tonight in my home, it's 100 credits for a ticket, hope you'll come! I can't guarantee anyone will come, but I can guarantee anyone who comes will pay.
There are platforms like Floatplane that use this model.
Then there's the busking model. You do it in public. You can't guarantee anyone pays, but they'll definitely come, and some will probably pay.
YouTube wants both. It wants to be the place where people busk (like the public square) but also force advertising on you. You can't have it both ways. Either go private or accept that this is public and I will do what I want with my browser.
If anything the cost of making the video is sunk by the creator just once and then rapidily payed off.
Once that happens it's just hosting costs and Moore's, Kryder's and Koomey's Laws are brining that down exponetially.
Funnily enough though you never see the amount of avertising shown getting shorter to represent the lower costs involved eh?
Is it wasted time? That's up to you to decide, then choose whether you want to keep doing that or not.
If you want to charge for it directly, then sell tickets for a concert (put videos on Patreon).
As for the creators, it's up to them to decide whether they want to publish under these terms and risk having their content viewed without being paid for, or not put it on YouTube.