This has by far the best discussion of the visitor pattern I've yet to come across.
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https://craftinginterpreters.com/representing-code.html#the-...
I remember reading through it and not understanding why it had to be this complicated and then just used a tagged union instead.
Maybe I'm too stupid for OO. But I think that's kind of the point of the grug article as well. Why burden ourselves with indirection and complexity when there's a more straight forward way?