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owenversteeg ◴[] No.44077762[source]
Like other people here, I have my quibbles with the exact math. But the general premise is true: yes, you can live in rural poverty for cheap. The problem is the vibes. A hundred years ago, you would have a community, a place in society, and all of your family and friends nearby. In 2025, the only actual local job the author of the piece can come up with is at a gas station.

Top ten occupations, 1920: Farmers, farm laborers, clerks, salespeople, servants (bellboys, butlers, cooks), textile workers, machinists, carpenters, and teachers. All of those jobs, even the less respected ones, had infinitely more societal respect than the common jobs hiring in rural America today - such as stocking shelves at Walmart or working at a gas station. You could be a simple farm laborer and have a wife and kids and a place in society. Today, though, a young man working at a Walmart or a gas station will struggle to attract a stable partner or the respect of the world around him.

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AstroBen ◴[] No.44078785[source]
Not saying I agree with the premise of the article at all but making life decisions based on how much others will respect it is a terrible way to live
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andrewrn ◴[] No.44080760[source]
We're wired to yield to social pressures, it is what allowed us to create civilization. You're right, the energy spent to overcome it is well spent, but its not as trivial as you make it sound to be low-status and feel fulfilled.
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AstroBen ◴[] No.44081833[source]
Status is relative to who's doing the judging.. and everyone views things differently. I'd argue you don't have much of a choice whether you're low or high status in some people's eyes. Whether you feel it regularly heavily depends on who you surround yourself with

Your career = your social status is a very American point of view

Eat meat and vegans will look down on you

Ride a bike for transport in America and you're poor, do it in Europe and it's normal

Nomads will judge you on your experiences and travel, not your career. Wealthy CEO thats invested everything in their work but never left their home country? Low status

Go out on your own and take a risk of starting a business in Asia and people will be confused why you'd do that vs the safe path

Invest a tonne of energy into making money and anti-consumerist folk will laugh

Skinny? Better bulk up lest the bodybuilders see you as low status.. but wait, if you bulk up people will judge you for being vain. Shit

The status game isn't winnable. Best thing you can do is surround yourself with people of similar values

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1. andrewrn ◴[] No.44082752{3}[source]
"Surround yourself with people of similar values"... so in other words, you mean find a group where you're of similar status. We're not in disagreement.