i'm gonna be a dick; I hate how some of my friends raise their kids and make their kids my problem when they're visiting and they see me as a daycare. Besides being a host I now have to take care of my friends and feeding them alcohol AND at the same time I have to correct their kids to not breakdown my house.
I'll wind down the socials with those parents who are not parenting and cherish the friends more who raise well-behaved children