Message queues are usually a core part of any distributed architecture, and the options are endless: Kafka, RabbitMQ, NATS, Redis Streams, SQS, ZeroMQ... and then there's the “just use Postgres” camp for simpler use cases.
I’m trying to make sense of the tradeoffs between:
- async fire-and-forget pub/sub vs. sync RPC-like point to point communication
- simple FIFO vs. priority queues and delay queues
- intelligent brokers (e.g. RabbitMQ, NATS with filters) vs. minimal brokers (e.g. Kafka’s client-driven model)
There's also a fair amount of ideology/emotional attachment - some folks root for underdogs written in their favorite programming language, others reflexively dismiss anything that's not "enterprise-grade". And of course, vendors are always in the mix trying to steer the conversation toward their own solution.
If you’ve built a production system in the last few years:
1. What queue did you choose?
2. What didn't work out?
3. Where did you regret adding complexity?
4. And if you stuck with a DB-based queue — did it scale?
I’d love to hear war stories, regrets, and opinions.
Kafka is a great tool with lots of very useful properties (not just queues, it can be your primary datastore), but it's not operationally simple. If you're going to use it you should fully commit to building your whole system on it and accept that you will need to invest in ops at least a little. It's not a good fit for a "side" feature on the edge of your system.