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    The Death of Daydreaming

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    elbasti ◴[] No.43896780[source]
    Last year I took a smartphone holiday for 4 months (switched to a dumbphone). It was a fantastic time and I regret "falling off the wagon" and getting a smartphone again.

    I noticed a huge number of benefits, but one of the most surprising was that it forced me to confront a number of difficult decisions.

    There were a few times in which I was bored (waiting at the passport office, sitting on a plane) in which I started to think about decisions I had to make that were very difficult in ways that caused me anxiety: firing a person I'm good friends with, shutting down a company, stuff like that.

    I realized that ordinarily I would simply refuse to engage with the decision: I'd get on my phone or "get busy" somehow and so simply postpone thinking about the issue indefinitely.

    But when you're stuck at the passport office for 2 hours with nothing to do, you can't but help think about the thing that is top of mind, anxiety be damned.

    For someone that is prone to anxiety around certain topics (conflict avoidance, "disappointing" people, etc) having times in which I was forced to engage with the topic had truly enormous benefits.

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    1. sspiff ◴[] No.43897186[source]
    I've tried this a couple of times, and the only things I miss are:

    - Navigation (can be solved with a dedicated device, but it's a lot less convenient) - A good camera at all times (I used to not care about this, but it's become more important now I have kids) - Mobile payments (pretty essential in my country, not all places accept cards or cash)

    In every other aspect, it was a net positive in my life to get rid of my phone.

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    2. redeux ◴[] No.43897244[source]
    This is what's held me back as well, but I recently discovered the Minimal phone which is an android phone with all the things you mentioned, but with a less distracting e-ink display.

    https://minimalcompany.com/

    (I'm not affiliated with minimal company in any way, nor have I actually tried the phone)

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    3. elbasti ◴[] No.43897250[source]
    I found the truly irreplaceable apps to be:

    - Uber

    - Banking

    - Google Maps

    For a camera, I suggest buying a real, standalone camera (I have a fuji x100). The photos it takes are VASTLY better than an iphone. For something smaller that fits in a pocket, people say great things about the Ricoh GR III.

    Unfortunately, I found that being out without a smartphone did cause certain anxieties for me: What if I forgot about an appointment? What if I get an urgent email or whatsapp?

    The answer would be having an actual assistant (ie, a secretary). Someone I could call to order me an uber or look up a restaurant, and someone who could call me to say "hey, X just sent you a whatsapp message that seems pretty urgent."

    I that an AI powered assistant that communicates via phone or text could be a great use for AI and something I hope to code up whenever I have some spare time.

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    4. s3graham ◴[] No.43897720[source]
    I'm trying this strategy at the moment. https://www.shesabeast.co/the-diy-dumbphone-method/

    The main things I needed to remove are the web browser and email client to make it ~ a dumbphone. I don't find myself wasting time staring at maps, or a weather app, or a calorie tracker, or camera/photos so I don't feel there's any reason to forgo those. (YMMV of course!)

    5. imhoguy ◴[] No.43897880[source]
    This is cool. AI assistant which operates the real smartphone hidden somewhere in a drawer, and the only interface would be voice chat or text via dumbphone! I am in.
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    6. jzawodn ◴[] No.43898543[source]
    I don't know... I'm of the opinion that there's no such thing as an "urgent email" or similar. Urgent things should be handled via synchronous technology--like a phone call.
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    7. nullc ◴[] No.43899273[source]
    I have a smartphone that runs signal, the phone app, the camera app, and a mapping app. Why not do the same?

    I have never logged into anything except signal on a phone. I haven't removed the browser but I don't have any interest in using it and have only used it to look up wikipedia stuff while traveling and what not. If I did feel some temptation to web browse on it I could remove the browser.

    I find it surprising that anyone wants to browse on their phone, I find the tiny screen infuriating.

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    8. smileysteve ◴[] No.43899306[source]
    Shoutout to Samsung Ultra Power Saving Mode (and other modes)

    You can get ~4 day battery life if you limit your apps to phone, text, music, email, wallet (with no lasting background activities*)

    9. jimbokun ◴[] No.43899327{3}[source]
    That reminds me of Randy Pausch in The Last Lecture, discussing how he handled his boss demanding a way to contact him in his honeymoon in case of a work emergency.

    Pausch gave his boss the number of his new mother in law. In case of an emergency, the boss could explain to the mother in law why it was worth interrupting her daughter’s honeymoon, in which case the mother in law would relay the message.

    There mother in law was never called.

    10. jimbokun ◴[] No.43899347{3}[source]
    The big LLM companies should have employees using only a dumb phone connected only to their LLM as a way to accomplish tasks or get information. Would rapidly improve the UX of their chat programs I’m sure.
    11. timeinput ◴[] No.43899691[source]
    I "pre-ordered" one, and it has not yet arrived. I have given up on ever receiving my phone, and just consider it a lesson learned. If I receive it, that will be a happy occurrence. It should have arrived 4 months ago (at least that's what they said when I ordered it). They tell me it will arrive in the next month (depending on customs clearance times). They have said it will arrive in the next month multiple times. Those statements have all been inaccurate so far. Maybe it will show up one day.
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    12. redeux ◴[] No.43900609{3}[source]
    Good to know. I hope it shows up.
    13. alexey-salmin ◴[] No.43902784[source]
    Reviews seem good, thanks for the hint. I guess I'll go order it because the grayscale mode on my Pixel 8 had zero effect, videos are just as good apparently.

    Curiously Mininal Phone didn't show up when I did research half a year ago, it seems new.

    14. BlueTemplar ◴[] No.43903279[source]
    Like you mention, they are still decent for reading : HN, Slashdot before that, Wikipedia, various RSS feeds : I was already doing it before smartphones got touchscreens, WiFi, and dirt cheap cellular data : by using Opera mini on a Nokia.