This is where the discussion, as it always does, silently transitions from science into science fiction.
We know absolutely nothing about extraterrestrial life. We can only project our own singular experience onto the rest of the universe. We only have one data point. There is no scientifically acceptable method of induction from a single data point. The possibilities are endless, and are capacity to narrow them down becomes warped by our love of stories and the kinds of art that we have created about extraterrestial life, all of which are in one way or another metaphors for the human condition.
There is nothing wrong with saying, "Anything is possible and we have 0 evidence allowing us to narrow it down." It isn't fun, but it's true.