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cab11150904[dead post] ◴[] No.43681694[source]
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wormlord ◴[] No.43681817[source]
You are probably gonna get downvoted for lack of empathy but I completely agree. I feel bad for OP, but simultaneously if you are a technocrat who thinks they are somehow insulated or not part of the larger system, you need a reality check.

> I was supposed to help with the developer keynote, ensuring things matched reality and were beautiful. Gone.

Maybe I am too much of a jaded asshole but anyone who writes something like this needs perspective.

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cab11150904[dead post] ◴[] No.43681849[source]
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causal ◴[] No.43681944[source]
Consider therapy
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cab11150904 ◴[] No.43681967[source]
On what basis? You're assuming that this feeling is wrong. It is not. There is no need for correction.
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1. zdragnar ◴[] No.43682265[source]
Therapy isn't so much telling you that your feelings are wrong. Feelings arise from many factors that are beyond your immediate control.

Therapy helps provide better context for, introspection into, and understanding of those feelings, and more importantly, alternative ways of responding to, expressing and acting upon them.

At the very least, expressing them less aggressively while still getting across your point.