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When someone’s life gets turned upside down, feeling sick to the stomach is a normal reaction.
Also keep in mind that the person who wrote this blog might be here on hacker news reading comments.
If you met this person in real life would you say those things to him? If the answer is no then why post those things here?
I would actually yes say it to their face and I appreciate when someone says things like these to my face as well. Loss of perspective is a real thing and cause personal infernos with seeming no way out.