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Half the men in Seattle are never-married singles, census data shows

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118 points blondie9x | 1 comments | 13 Apr 25 14:36 UTC | HN request time: 0.407s | source
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jandrewrogers ◴[13 Apr 25 15:15 UTC] No.43673380[source]▶
Anecdotally, among the people I know in Seattle, many people who have happily been in the same relationship for decades are not married. People are not avoiding long-term relationships, they are avoiding the baggage and fairly rigid assumptions that comes with state intervention in their relationships. There is zero social pressure to be “officially” married so people have no reason to do it for the sake of social conformity. Both men and women are subscribing to this.

I think some of this is a side-effect of many people planning to never have children.

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1. meesles ◴[13 Apr 25 15:30 UTC] No.43673502[source]▶
Agreed with this point. Folks are moving away from traditional relationship structures, and have been for a while.

If you want a personal anecdote - I'm partnered, not married, we don't plan to have kids or marry, and worry pretty much 0 about retirement or having enough funds to pass on to another generation. We're just enjoying our lives for however long that may be.