Self-Hosting like it's 2025

I agree with this: I personally don't need tutorials for hosting stuff, rather tutorials about securing it properly.

Could you give an example of a guide that helped you self host a system or service by telling you how to do the security? One that shows what information would be missing from a regular setup tutorial?

I'm a security consultant so this is not a problem I have. To me it seems very straightforward and like most things are secure by default (with the exceptions being notorious enough that I'd know of it), so I'm interested in the other perspective

I haven't seen such a guide, unfortunately :-).

I consider hosting a system or service trivial ("just run the service and open its port to the public Internet"). Then the first question is: what if the service gets compromised (that seems like the most likely attack vector, right?)? Probably it should be sandboxed. Maybe in a container (not running as root inside the container, because I understand it makes it a lot easier to escape), better if it is in a VM (using Xen maybe?). What about jails?

Now say the services are running in VMs, and the "VM manager" (I don't know how to call it, I mean e.g. dom0 for Xen) is only accessible from my own IP (ideally over a VPN if it's running in a VPS, or just through the LAN if running at home?), the next question is: what happens if one of the services gets compromised? I assume the attacker can then compromise the VM, so now what are the risks for me? I probably should never ssh as a user and then login as root from there, because if it's compromised the attacker can probably read my password? Say I only ever login through ssh, either as root directly or as the user (but never promoting myself to root from the user), what could be vectors that would allow an attacker to compromise my host machine?

I listened to a lot of "Darknet Diaries" episodes, and the pentesters always say "I got in, and then moved laterally". So I'm super scared about that: if I run a service exposed to the Internet, I assume it may get compromised someday (though I'll do my best to protect it and keep it up-to-date). But then when it gets compromised, how can I prevent those "lateral moves"? I have no idea, as in "I don't know what I don't know".

All that to say, I would love to find a book or blog posts that explain those things. Tutorials I see usually teach how to run a service in docker and don't really talk about security.

I'm not the person you asked, but if some security researcher such as yourself needs a million-dollar service to sell, I'll offer that I would pay decent money for a webapp or something where I can list all the things in my stack or project and it spits out a list of known and possible vulnerabilities that I should check default configs for, update, patch, etc.

My thinking is this; if I'm willing to fork over dollars to a VPS hosting service for peace-of-mind, then paying for a service that helps me understand what I'm doing when it comes to self-hosting should also be on the table as an alternative.

That said, I have no idea how viable of a business model that would be, or if it would even be able to be developed and upkept with reliable info. Or, maybe it already exists, but on an enterprise level that I cannot afford for some dumb little blogs.

The CVE database is free. Or maybe NVD are the ones publishing this mapping of CVEs to software packages and versions, but either way, a site like cvedetails will give you this information. I'm less sure where you could subscribe to these for all software thingies you run (maybe cvedetails already has that)