People who stress about people who stress about linting… focus on something else. Everyone has their idiosyncrasies.
A lot of great coders have psychological oddities. Some things help them focus. Whether it’s neat environment, listening to music, consistent code formatting.
I listen to them and try and accommodate even if I disagree. I’ve changed my mind about several topics multiple times now. I felt strongly about some at one point over the past few decades as well.