> So your option as a security professional is to express to your risk management team we allow "hacking tools" or lose iCloud Relay customers
a professional would explain how the vendor is being lazy and making a mistake there because they don't understand your business.
depending on the flavor of security professional (hacker) they might also subtly suggest that this vendor is dumb and should be embarrassed they've made this mistake, thus creating the implication that if you still want to block these users you would also have to be an idiot
under so circumstance is what I ever allow anyone to get the mistaken impression that some vendor understands my job better than I do. As a "security professional" it's literally your job to identify hostile traffic, better than a vendor could.