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A layoff fundamentally changed how I perceive work

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1041 points mertbio | 3 comments | 27 Jan 25 08:22 UTC | HN request time: 0.632s | source
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yumed15 ◴[27 Jan 25 09:48 UTC] No.42839225[source]▶
I've been part of layoffs twice (with around 8 years in the workforce by now) and yes, I realised the harsh truth that going above and beyond, putting in the soul and long hours is not worth it. No one cares in the long term, you're just a number in the spreadsheet at the end of the day.

But the thing is, I like what I'm working on, I like letting my passion dictate my actions. I want to go home at the end of the day and be proud of what I have accomplished.

But it's not worth putting in that effort for a company that treats you like any other resource. So I'm starting to become one of those soulless employees. You can call it quiet quitting or whatever. And it's slowly killing my spark.

I started working on my own projects to keep that spark alive. But 2h every day is not enough to build something that's worth it.

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1. cyberpunk ◴[27 Jan 25 10:04 UTC] No.42839335[source]▶
Yep I’m in exactly the same boat. I think I’ve largely decided that tech is just a job now; my motivation to code outside of work was tied to also somehow enjoying doing it at work and now I don’t anymore I also stopped doing it for fun.

So I’ve replaced advent of code with various other stuff, music, woodworking, books, the great outdoors and while my life is less rich in technology it’s becoming much fuller in other ways.

I think I prefer it this way.

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2. secondcoming ◴[27 Jan 25 11:07 UTC] No.42839720[source]▶
For me, coding outside of work becomes unsustainable as you age. It's not that you can't, it's because you realise there's more to life than staring at a computer screen. I love coding, but it's also good to go outside sometimes.
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3. CharlieDigital ◴[27 Jan 25 13:05 UTC] No.42840710[source]▶
For me, there was a rebound.

Recent years (40's) I've been on a building spree of sorts for my own projects[0]

I'm my 30's, a lot of energy went into home improvement projects, establishing a garden, and young kids. Now I find a lot of time and energy left for my own passion projects.

[0] https://turas.app and https://coderev.app