After using this malloc-auto-abort() style for many many years, I've come to believe that
if only for the better error handling properties, manual memory management should primarily be done via explicit up front arena allocation using OS API's like mmap/VirtualAlloc, then a bump allocator within the arena.
It helps in the vast amount of cases where sensible memory bounds are known or can be inferred, and it means that all system memory allocation errors* can be dealt with up front with proper error handling (including perhaps running in a more restrictive mode with less memory), and then all application memory allocation errors (running out of space in the arena) can be auto-abort() as before (and be treated as bugs). The other huge benefit is that there is no free() logic for incremental allocations within the arena, you just munmap/VirtualFree the arena in its entirety when done.
Of course, there are cases where there are no sensible memory bounds (in space or perhaps in time) and where this method is not appropriate without significant modification.
*modulo Linux's overcommit... which is a huge caveat