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1603 points ezekg | 1 comments | 16 Jan 25 14:17 UTC | HN request time: 0s | source
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subomi ◴[16 Jan 25 19:30 UTC] No.42729781[source]▶
"They're not only awkward, but a 30 minute call takes up hours of my headspace." This is so apt. I've found that I have the best calls with people who provide specific notes about what they want to discuss—the more specific the note, the less headspace the call requires.

Maybe it could be done via email which is the point of this blog, but I never had the confidence to try that.

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1. mihaaly ◴[16 Jan 25 19:55 UTC] No.42730061[source]▶
We have a saying in my home country, roughly: 'spoken words fly away, written words remain'.

For reliable and specific matters using calls is unfit for the purpose. I avoid talking about those as a primary medium, being only suplementary. Something not written down never existed in the end.

In matters I do not know to the slightes, where to begin with, talking to a person is better starting with. Then after getting my bearings step back to the reliability of written words and written discussions and written agreements and such is the way.

And those insist on speeking instead of providing written info is a big warning sign about something fishy (intent of misdirection, incompetency, cluelessness, confused internals, ...) is hiding there.